My Straight Men's sex life has been very much an open video to me. I've had plenty of relationships and sex with men all over the world. This was great because I got to practice and learn how to listen to each other, to gauge my partners' feelings and to give them the opportunity to talk. I also got to have sex with a lot of different people and experiment with my body until I found the right one. That was my biggest problem: Not being able to tell my partner whether I was having an orgasm or not!.