It has come to my attention that my wife and I have been screwing around for the last couple of months with a realtor whose son is about 10 years older than our daughter. If you are a man in this situation, you are probably like me, thinking "what the heck am I doing wrong, why isn't she dating a hot young cougar already"? She tried to set up a date with our son's realtor and he said that he was too busy and told her that he didn't know if he would be able to make it that evening. If this woman had been my wife, she would've called an afternoon appointment at the realtor's office and we would have gone someplace private and maybe even had a candle light dinner..